Weekend Grooming And Etiquette

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 With  Willard Chigumira

Our Grooming and Etiquette  Editions seeks to value the concept of Humanity and how we should value ourselves in the eyes of communities we live in

_The way we present ourselves in public gatherings and forums has a lasting impression on how people perceive our conduct

“I am because we are in the context of Ubuntu – Ubuntu is a Nguni Bantu term meaning humanity translated as I am because we are”, or humanity towards others an internal African philosophy of Oneness.

#It is the belief in a universal bond of sharing that connects humanity and embraces the idea that humans cannot exist in isolation. 

#We depend on connection, community and caring, simply we cannot be without each other. 

#This philosophy requires a conscious shift in how we think about ourselves and others.

 *Slide #2*

(6) *_🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏽‍♂️Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't value or reciprocate it. 🚗_*

(7) *_🏡Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.💰💸_* 💃🏽

😎 Stop entertaining gossip about other people.

(9) *_🧠Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.👄_*

(10) *_Always look your best. 👔👗👘👠👞💍👓Dress the way you should be addressed._*

*Slide #1*

*HOW TO EARN RESPECT IN SOCIETY 👏🏾*

(1) 👀 *_Stop looking for people who never look for you._*

#Its always you who always start conversations on WhatsApp, it's always you who makes 🤙 calls, initiate conversations 🙆🏾‍♂️

(2) *_🙅🏿‍♂️Stop begging._*

# for love, friendship, material gains....

(3) _*🤳🏽Stop saying more than is necessary.*_

#have self pride, don't say much about yourself to people, have boundaries in speech...

-siyanai neSelf Raising 🚮

(4) *_🤬When people disrespect you, avoid them._*

#Dnt try to associate with those who don't value your self worth

(5) _*😋Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.*_

*Slide #3*

(11) *_🎓Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.🎯⛳🥅_*

(12) *_Respect your time.⏰⏳_*

 

(13) *_🙇🏽‍♂️Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.🚶🏽‍♂️_*

(14) *_Learn to spend money on yourself.💰💰💰 That's how people will learn to spend on you._*

(15) *_Be scarce sometimes._*

*4th and Final Slide*

(16) _*Be a giver more than a receiver.*_

(17) _*Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.*_

(18) *_Treat people exactly the way they deserve._*

(19) _*Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.🤙🏾*_

(20) *Be good at what you do. Be the best.*

(Willard Chigumira is an educationist based in Dangamvura in Mutare. He spends his weekends  at his grocery shop and at Church on Sundays).